Epictetus (55-135 CE): Enchiridion, or, The Manual
The Greek Stoic philosopher Epictetus, who composed the valuable brief essay "What is Solitude?" in Book 3, chapter 13, of his Discourses, is well known for his Enchiridion, or, Manual. The questions touched upon in the Enchiridion, while presented from a Stoic point of view, are relevant to eremitism: what philosophy of life allows one to disengage from the world while at the same time being functional, sociable, and empathetic. Translation adapted from George Long (1888).
The Enchiridion, or Manual, of Epictetus; translation by George Long (1888)
1. Of things some are in our power, and others are not. In our power are
opinion, movement toward a thing, desire, aversion, and
in a word, whatever are our own acts. Not in our power are the body, property,
reputation, offices, and in a word, whatever are not our own
acts.
And the things in our power are by nature free, not subject to restraint nor hindrance. But the things not in our power are weak, slavish, subject to restraint, in the control of others.
Remember then that if you think the things
which are by nature slavish to be free, and the things which are in the power of
others to be your own, you will be hindered, you will lament, you will be
disturbed, you will blame both gods and men. But if you think that only which is
your own to be your own, and if you think that what is another's really
does belongs to another, no one will ever compel you, no one will hinder you, you
will never blame anyone, you will accuse no one, you will do nothing
against your will, no one will harm you, and you will have no enemy
for you will not suffer any harm.
If then you aim at such great things, remember that you must not
attempt to lay hold of them with a small effort but must leave alone some
things entirely and postpone others for the present. However, if you wish these
great things plus power and wealth, you will
perhaps not gain even these power and wealth, because you aim also at great things.
Certainly you will fail to atain those things
through which alone happiness and freedom are secured.
Straightway, then, practice
saying to every harsh appearance: You are an appearance, and in no manner what
you appear to be. Then examine it by the rules which you possess, and by this
first and chiefly, whether it relates to the things which are in our power or to
the things which are not in our power. If it relates to anything which is
not in our power, be ready to say that it does not concern you.
2. Remember that desire contains in it the hope of obtaining that
which you desire. The hope of turning from a thing
is that you will not fall into that which you attempt to avoid. Who fails
in desire is unfortunate; who falls into that which should be avoided
is unhappy.
If then you attempt to avoid only the things contrary to nature which are within your power, you will not be involved in any of the things which you would avoid. But if you attempt to avoid disease or death or poverty, you will be unhappy. Take away aversion from all things which are not in our power, and transfer it to the things contrary to nature which are in our power.
Destroy desire completely for the present. For if you desire anything which
is not in our power, you must be unfortunate. Of the things in our power,
and which it would be good to desire, nothing yet is before you. But employ only
the power of moving toward an object and retiring from it, and these powers,
indeed, only slightly and with exceptions and with remission.
3. In everything which pleases the soul, or supplies a want, or is loved,
remember to add this to the description: what is the nature of each
thing, beginning from the smallest? If you love an earthen vessel, say it is an
earthen vessel which you love; for when it has been broken, you will not be
disturbed. If you are kissing your child or spouse, say that it is a human being
whom you are kissing, for when the spouse or child dies, you will not be
disturbed.
4. When you are going to take in hand any act, remind yourself what kind of an
act it is. If you are going to bathe [i.e., in the public bathes of the Roman
era], place before yourself what happens in the
bath: some splashing the water, others pushing against one another, others
abusing one another, and some stealing. Thus with more safety you will
undertake the matter, if you say to yourself, I now intend to bathe, and to
maintain my will in a manner conformable to nature. And so you will do in every
act: for thus if any hindrance to bathing shall happen, let this thought be
ready; it was not this only that I intended, but I intended also to maintain my
will in a way conformable to nature; but I shall not maintain it so, if I am
vexed at what happens.
5. People are disturbed not by the things which happen, but by the opinions about
the things. For example, death is nothing terrible, for if it were it would
have seemed so to Socrates. The opinion about death, that it is terrible, is
the terrible thing. When, then, we are impeded or disturbed or grieved, let us
never blame others, but ourselves, that is, our opinions. It is the act of an
ill-instructed person to blame others for one's own bad condition; it is the act of
one who has begun to be instructed, to lay the blame on one's self; and of one
whose instruction is completed, neither to blame another, nor himself.
6. Be not elated at any advantage which belongs to another. If a
horse when it is elated should say, I am beautiful, one might endure it. But
when you are elated, and say, I have a beautiful horse, you must know that you
are elated at having a good horse. But what, really, is your own? Only the use of
appearances. Consequently when in the use of appearances you are conformable to
nature, then be elated, for then you will be elated at something good which is
your own.
7. As on a voyage when the vessel has reached a port, if you go out to get
water, it is an amusement by the way to pick up a shell-fish or some bulb, but
your thoughts ought to be directed to the ship, and you ought to be constantly
watching if the captain should call, and then you must throw away all those
things, that you may not be bound and pitched into the ship like sheep. So in
life also, if there be given to you instead of a little bulb and a shell a
spouse
and child, there will be nothing to prevent you from having them. But if the
captain should call, run to the ship, and leave all those things without regard
to them. And if you are old, do not even go far from the ship, lest when you are
called you make default.
8. Seek not that the things which happen should happen as you wish, but wish
the things which happen to be as they are, and your life will flow tranquilly.
9. Disease is an impediment to the body, but not to the will, unless the will
itself chooses. Lameness is an impediment to the leg, but not to the will. And
add this reflection on the occasion of everything that happens, for you will
find it an impediment to something else, but not to yourself.
10. On the occasion of every event that befalls you, remember to turn
to yourself and inquire what power you have for turning it to use. If you see a
fair man or a fair woman, you will find that the power to resist is temperance. If pain be presented to you, you will find that it is
endurance. If it be abusive words, you will find it to be patience. And if you
have been thus molded yourself to proper habits, appearances will not carry you
along with them.
11. Never say about anything, "I have lost it," but rather "I have restored it." Is
your child dead? It has been restored. Is your spouse dead? Your spouse has been restored.
Has your estate been taken from you? Has not then this also been restored? He who has taken it from me is a bad man.
Yes, but what is it to you, by whose hands
the giver demanded it back? So long as he may allow you, take care of it as a
thing which belongs to another, as travelers do with their inn.
12. If you intend to improve, throw away such thoughts as these: if I neglect
my affairs, I shall not have the means of living, or, unless I punish my
subordinate, he
will be bad. For it is better to die of hunger and so be released from grief and
fear than to live in abundance with perturbation. It is better for your
subordinate to be bad than for you to be unhappy. Begin then from little things. Is
the oil spilled? Is a little wine stolen? Say on the occasion, at such price is
sold freedom from perturbation; at such price is sold tranquility, but nothing
is got for nothing. And when you call your subordinate, consider that it is possible
that he does not hear; and if he does hear, that he will do nothing which you
wish. But matters are not so well with him, but altogether well with you, that
it should be in his power for you to be not disturbed.
13. If you would improve, submit to being considered senseless and foolish
with respect to externals. Wish to be considered as knowing nothing. If you
seem to some to be a person of importance, distrust yourself. It is not easy both to keep your will in a condition
conformable to nature and to secure external things. But if you are careful
about the one, it is an absolute inevitability that you will neglect the other.
14. If you would have your children and your spouse and your friends live
forever, you are silly, for you would have the things which are not in your
power to be in your power, and the things which belong to others to be yours. So
if you would have your subordinate to be free from faults, you are a fool; for you
would have badness not to be badness, but something else. But if you wish not to
fail in your desires, you are able to do that. Practice then that which you are
able to do.
You are the master of everyone who has the power over things
which another person wishes or does not wish, the power to confer them on
someone or
to take them away. Whoever then wishes to be free should neither wish for
anything nor avoid anything which depends on others. If you do not observe this
rule, you will be a slave of others.
15. Remember that in life you ought to behave as at a banquet. Suppose that
something is carried round and proffered to you. Stretch out your hand and
take a portion with decency. Suppose that it passes by you. Do not detain it.
Suppose that it is not yet come to you. Do not send your desire forward to it,
but wait till it is opposite to you. Do likewise with respect to children, with
respect to a spouse, with respect to positions, with respect to
wealth, and you will be a worthy partner of the banquets of the gods.
But if you take none of the things which are set before you, and even despise
them, then you will be not only a fellow-banqueter with the gods, but also a
partner with them in power. For by acting thus Diogenes and Heracleitus and
those like them were deservedly divine, and were so called.
16. When you see a person weeping in sorrow either when a child goes abroad or
when he is dead, or when someone has lost his property, take care that the
appearance does not hurry you away with it, as if that person were suffering in external
things. But straightway make a distinction in your own mind, and be in readiness
to say, "It is not that which has happened that afflicts this person, for it does
not afflict another, but it is the opinion about this thing which afflicts him." So far as words then do not be unwilling to show
someone sympathy, and even if
it happens so, to lament with him. But take care that you do not lament
internally also.
17. Remember that you are an actor in a play of such a kind as the
playwright may choose. If your part is short, it is short; if long, it is long.
If the playwright
wishes you to act the part of a beggar, see that you act the part naturally;
if the part of one who limps, or of a magistrate, of a private person, play it.
To select
the part belongs to another. But your duty is to act well the part that is given to you.
18. [To believers in divination]: When a raven has croaked inauspiciously, let not the appearance hurry you
away with it. Straightway make a distinction in your mind and say, "None of
these things is signified to me, but either to my poor body, or to my small
property, or to my reputation, or to my children or to my spouse: but to me all
significations are auspicious if I choose. For whatever of these things results,
it is in my power to derive benefit from it."
19. You can be invincible if you enter into no situation in which it is not in
your power to succeed. Take care then when you observe someone honored before
others or possessed of great power or highly esteemed for any reason, not to
suppose that person happy, and be not carried away by the appearance. For if the nature
of the good is in our power, neither envy nor jealousy will have a place in us.
But you yourself will not wish to be a general or senator or consul, but a free
man. There is only one way to achieve this: to care not for the things
which are not in our power.
20. Remember that it is not another who reviles you or strikes you, who insults you,
but it is your opinion about these things as being insulting. When then someone
irritates you, you must know that it is your own opinion which has irritated
you. Therefore especially try not to be carried away by appearance. For if
you once gain time and delay, you will more easily master yourself.
21. Let death and exile and every other thing which appears dreadful be daily
before your eyes; but most of all death, and you will never think of anything
mean nor will you desire anything extravagantly.
22. If you desire philosophy, prepare yourself from the beginning to be
ridiculed, to expect that many will sneer at you, and say, "He has all at once
returned to us as a philosopher! Whence does he get this supercilious look
for us?" Do not show a supercilious look. Hold on to the things which
seem to you best as one appointed by god to this station. And remember that if
you abide in the same principles, those who first ridiculed will afterward
admire you. But if you shall have been overpowered by them, you will have
brought upon
yourself double ridicule.
23. If it should ever happen to you to be turned to externals in order to
please some person, you must know that you have lost your purpose in life. Be
satisfied in everything with being a philosopher. If you wish to seem
also to any person to be a philosopher, appear so to yourself and you will be
able to do this.
24. Let not these thoughts afflict you: I shall live not esteemed and be
nobody, nowhere. For if want of honor is an evil, you cannot be in evil through
the fault of another any more than you can be involved in anything base.
Is it then your business to obtain the rank of magistrate, or to be received at
a banquet? By no means. How then can this be dishonor? And how
will you be nobody nowhere, when you ought to be somebody only in those things
which are in your power, in which indeed it is permitted to you to be a someone of
the greatest worth?
But your friends will be without your assistance? What do you mean by being without assistance? They will not receive money from you, nor will you make them Roman citizens [a costly favor to buy in this era]. Who then told you that these are among the things which are in our power, and not in the power of others? And who can give to another what he has not himself?
Your friends will tell you, "Acquire money then, that we also may have something." You will reply, "If I can acquire money and also keep myself modest and faithful and magnanimous, point out the way, and I will acquire it. But if you ask me to lose the things which are good and my own, in order that you may gain the things which are not good, see how unfair and silly you are. Besides, which would you rather have, money or a faithful and modest friend? For this end then rather help me to be such a person, and do not ask me to do this by which I shall lose that character."
But my country, you say, as far as it depends on me, will
be without my service. I ask again, what help do you mean? It will not have
porticoes or baths through you. And what does this mean? For it is not furnished
with shoes by means of a smith, nor with arms by means of a shoemaker. But it is
enough if everyone fully discharges the work that is their own. And if you
provided your country with another citizen faithful and modest, would you not be useful to
it? Yes. Then you also cannot be useless to it. What place then, you say, shall
I hold in the city? Whatever you can, if you maintain at the same time your
fidelity and modesty. But if when you wish to be useful to the state, you shall
lose these qualities, what profit could you be to it, if you were made shameless
and faithless?
25. Has anyone been preferred before you at a banquet, or in being
greeted, or
in being invited to a meeting? If these things are good, you ought to
rejoice that he has obtained them, but if bad, be not grieved because you have
not obtained them. Remember that you cannot be considered worthy of the same
things if you do not do those things that obtain what is not in our power. For how can anyone obtain an equal share with another without
calling on those with power as others do, without attending them when they go
abroad as others do, without flattering them the way others do?
You will be unjust and insatiable if you do not part with the price in return for which those things are bought and sold, wishing to obtain them for nothing. Well, what is the price of lettuce? A copper piece, perhaps? If then a man gives up a copper penny and receives lettuce, and if you do not give up the penny and do not obtain the lettuce, then do not suppose that you receive less than he who has bought the lettuce. He has got the lettuce, and you have the penny which you did not give up.
Likewise, in the other
matter, you have not been invited to a feast, for you did not give to
the host the price at which the supper is sold. But the host sells it for the
price of flattery, he sells it for personal attention. Give then the price, if it is
for your interest, for which it is sold. But if you wish both not to give the
price and to obtain the things, you are insatiable and silly. Have you nothing
then in place of this supper? You have indeed, you have the not-flattering of
him whom you did not choose to flatter. You have the not-enduring of the man
when he enters the room.
26. We may learn the will of nature from the things in which we do not
differ from one another. For instance, when your neighbor's servant has broken
a
cup, or anything else, we are ready to say that it is one of those
things that happen. You must know then that when your cup also is broken, you
ought to think as you did when your neighbor's cup was broken. Transfer this
reflection to greater things also. Is another person's child or spouse dead? There is
no one who would not say that this is an event that can befall anyone. But when
one's own
child or spouse is dead, forthwith we call out, "Woe to me, how wretched I am." But
we ought to remember how we feel when we hear that it has happened to others.
27. As a target is not set up for the purpose of missing the aim, so neither
does the nature of evil exist in the world.
28. If anyone was intending to put your body in the power of someone else
whom you fell in with on the way, you would be vexed. But that you put your
understanding in the power of anyone whom you meet, so that if he should revile
you, you are disturbed and troubled, are you not ashamed of this?
29. In every act observe the things which come first, and those which follow
it, and so proceed to the act. If you do not, at first you will approach it with
alacrity, without having thought of the things which will follow. Then afterwards,
when certain ugly things have shown themselves, you will be ashamed.
An athlete wishes to win at the Olympic games. I, too, wish it, for it is a fine thing. But observe both the things which come first, and the things which follow; and then begin the act. You must do everything according to rule, eat according to strict orders, abstain from delicacies, exercise yourself as you are bid at appointed times, in heat, in cold, you must not drink cold water, nor wine as you choose. In short, you must deliver yourself up to the exercise master as you do to the physician, and then proceed to the contest.
And sometimes you will strain your hand, put your ankle out of joint, swallow much dust, sometimes be flogged, and after all this be defeated. When you have considered all this, if you still choose, then enter the contest, for if you do not, you will behave like children who at one time play as wrestlers, another time as flute players, again as gladiators, then as trumpeters, then as tragic actors. So you also will be at one time an athlete, at another a gladiator, then a rhetorician, then a philosopher, but with your whole soul you will be nothing at all. Like an ape you imitate everything that you see, and one thing after another pleases you.
For you have not undertaken anything with consideration, nor have you surveyed it well, but carelessly and with lukewarm desire. Thus some who have seen a philosopher and having heard one speak, as Euphrates speaks, and who can speak as he does, they wish to be philosophers themselves also. First of all, consider what kind of thing it is you want, then examine your own nature, if you are able to sustain the character. Do you wish to be a pentathlete or a wrestler? Look at your arms, your thighs, examine your loins. For different people are formed by nature for different things. Do you think that if you do the necessary things that you can eat in the same manner, drink in the same manner, and in the same manner loathe certain things? You must pass sleepless nights, endure toil, go away from your kinsmen, be despised by subordinates, in every thing have the inferior part, in honor, in office, in the courts of justice, in every little matter.
Consider these things, if you would exchange for them
freedom from passions, liberty, tranquility. If not, take care that like little
children you be not now a philosopher, then a servant of the publicans, then a
rhetorician, then an administrator for Caesar. These things are not
consistent. You must be one person, either good or bad. You must either cultivate
your own ruling faculty, or external things. You must either exercise your skill
on internal things or on external things. You must must either maintain the
position of a philosopher or that of a common person.
30. Duties are universally measured by relations. Is someone a parent? The
precept is to take care of a parent, to yield to him in all things, to submit when he
is reproachful, when he inflicts blows. But suppose that this person is a bad
parent.
Were you then by nature made akin to a good parent? No, just akin to a parent. Does a
sibling wrong you? Maintain then your own position toward your sibling, and do not
examine what he is doing, but what you must do that your will shall be
conformable to nature. For others will not harm you unless you so choose. But
you will be harmed when you shall think that you are harmed. In this way
you will discover your duty from the relation of a neighbor, from that of a
citizen, from that of an authority, if you are accustomed to contemplate the
relations.
31. As to piety toward the gods you must know that this is the chief thing, to
have right opinions about them, to think that they exist, and that they
administer the All well and justly. And you must fix yourself in this duty, to obey the
gods and yield to them in everything which happens, and
voluntarily to follow it as being accomplished by the wisest intelligence.
For if you do so, you will never either blame the gods, nor will you accuse them of neglecting you. And it is not possible for this to be done in any other way than by withdrawing from the things which are not in our power, and by placing the good and the evil only in those things which are in our power. For if you think that any of the things which are not in our power is good or bad, it is absolutely necessary that, when you do not obtain what you wish, and when you fall into those things which you do not wish, you will find fault and hate those who are the cause of them.
Every animal is formed by nature to this, to fly
from and to turn from the things which appear harmful and the things which are
the cause of the harm, but to follow and admire the things which are useful and
the causes of the useful. It is impossible for a person who thinks that he
is harmed to be delighted with that which he thinks to be the cause of the harm,
as it is also impossible to be pleased with the harm itself. For this reason
also a father is reviled by his son, when he gives no part to his son of the
things which are considered to be good. It was this which made Polynices and
Eteocles [sons of Oedipus, inheriting their father's curse] enemies, the opinion that royal power was a good. It is for this reason
that the cultivator of the earth reviles the gods, for this reason the sailor
does, and the merchant, and for this reason those who lose their spouses and their
children. For where your interest is, there also piety is.
Consequently he who takes care to desire as he ought and to avoid as he ought,
at the same time also cares after piety. But to make libations and to sacrifice
and to offer first fruits according to the custom of our fathers, purely and not
meanly nor carelessly nor scantily nor above our ability, is a thing which
belongs to all to do.
32. When you have recourse to divination, remember that you do not know how
it will turn out, but that you are come to inquire from the diviner. If you are
a philosopher, however, you know the outcome. For if it
is any of the things which are not in our power, it is absolutely necessary that
it must be neither good nor bad. Do not then bring to the diviner desire or
aversion. If you do, you will approach the diviner with fear. But having
determined in your mind that everything which shall turn out is
indifferent, and does not concern you, and that whatever it may be will be in
your power to use it well, and no one will hinder this, come then with
confidence to the gods as your advisers. And then when any advice shall have
been given, remember whom you have taken as advisers, and whom you will have
neglected, if you do not obey them. And go to divination -- as Socrates said that
you ought -- about those matters in which all the inquiry has reference to the
result, and in which means are not given either by reason nor by any other art
for knowing the thing which is the subject of the inquiry.
When we
ought to share a friend's danger or that of our country, you must not consult
the diviner as to whether you ought to share it. For even if the diviner shall tell
you that the signs of the victims are unlucky, it is plain that this is a token
of death or mutilation of part of the body or of exile. But reason prevails that
even with these risks we should share the dangers of our friend and of our
country. Therefore, attend to the greater diviner, the Pythian god [the Delphic
oracle], who ejected
from the temple he who did not assist his friend when he was being murdered.
33. Immediately prescribe some character and some form to yourself, which
you shall observe both when you are alone and when you meet with others.
And let silence be the general rule, or let only what is necessary be said, and
in few words. And rarely and when the occasion calls shall we say something. But
say nothing about common subjects, nor about gladiators, nor horse-races, nor
about athletes, nor about eating or drinking, which are the usual subjects; and
especially not about people, wither blaming them or praising them or comparing them.
If you are able, bring over by your conversation the conversation of your
associates to that which is proper. But if you should happen to be confined to
the company of strangers, be silent.
Let not your laughter be much, nor on many occasions, nor excessive.
Refuse altogether to take an oath, if it is possible. If it is not, refuse as
far as you are able.
Avoid banquets which are given by strangers and by ignorant persons. But if
ever there is occasion to join in them, let your attention be carefully fixed,
that you slip not into the manners of the vulgar. For you
must know, that if your company be impure, they also who keep company with them
must become impure, though you should happen to be pure.
Apply the things which relate to the body as far as bare use, such as
food, drink, clothing, house, and subordinates. Exclude everything which is for
show or luxury.
As to sexual pleasures, abstain as far as you can before marriage. If you
do indulge in it, do it in the way which is conformable to custom. Do not,
however, be disagreeable to those who indulge in these pleasures, or reprove
them. Do not often boast that you do not indulge in them yourself.
If some one has reported to you that a certain person speaks ill of you do not
reply to what has been told you other than to say: "So-and-so does not
know the rest of my faults to have mentioned only these."
It is not necessary to go to theater often, but if there is ever a proper
occasion for going, do not show yourself as being a partisan of anyone except
yourself, that is, desire only that to be done which is done, and for the
players only
to gain the prize who gains the prize. In this way you will meet with no
hindrance. But abstain entirely from shouts and laughter at anything or
anyone, or violent emotions. And when you are come away, do not talk much
about what has passed on the stage, except about that which may lead to your own
improvement. For it is plain, if you do talk much that you admired the spectacle
more than you ought.
Do not go to the hearing of certain persons' recitations nor visit them readily.
But if you do attend, observe gravity and sedateness, and also avoid making
yourself disagreeable.
When you are going to meet with any person, and particularly one of those who
are considered to be in a superior condition, place before yourself what
Socrates or Zeno would have done in such circumstances, and you will have no
difficulty in making a proper use of the occasion.
When you are going to meet anyone in great power, tell yourself
that you will not find this person at home, that you will be excluded, that the door
will not be opened to you, that this person will not care about you. And if with all
this it is your duty to visit, bear what happens, and never say to yourself
that it was not worth the trouble. For this is silly, and marks the character of
one who is offended by externals.
In company take care not to speak much and excessively about your own acts or
dangers. It is pleasant to you to make mention of your dangers, but not
so pleasant to others to hear what has happened to you. Take care also not to
provoke laughter, for this is a slippery way toward vulgar habits, and is also
adapted to diminish the respect of your neighbors. It is a dangerous habit also
to approach obscene talk. When anything of this sort happens, if there is a
good opportunity, rebuke the speaker who has proceeded to this talk. But if there is
not an opportunity, by your silence at least, and blushing and expression of
dissatisfaction by your countenance, show plainly that you are displeased at
such talk.
34. If you have received the impression of any pleasure, guard yourself
against being carried away by it. Let the thing wait for you, and allow
yourself a certain delay on your own part. Then think of two things: of the time
when you will enjoy the pleasure, and of the time after the enjoyment of the
pleasure when you will repent and will reproach yourself. And set against these
things how you will rejoice if you abstain from the pleasure, and how you
will commend yourself. But if it seem to you seasonable to pursue the
thing, take care that the charm of it, the pleasure, and the attraction of
it shall not conquer you. Set on the other side the consideration how much
better it is to be conscious that you have gained this victory.
35. When you have decided that something ought to be done and are doing it,
never avoid being seen doing it, though the many shall form an unfavorable
opinion about it. For if it is not right to do it, avoid doing it; but if
it is right, why are you afraid of those who shall find fault wrongly?
36. As the proposition "It is either day or it is night" is of great importance
for the disjunctive argument, but of no value for the conjunctive, so in an entertainment to select the larger share is of great value for the
body, but for the maintenance of the social feeling is worth nothing. When
you are eating with another, remember to look not only to the value for the body
of the things set before you, but also to the value of the behavior toward the
host.
37. If you have assumed a character or virtue above your strength, you have both acted
in this matter in an unbecoming way, and you have neglected that which you might
have fulfilled.
38. Just as in walking about you take care not to step on a nail or to sprain
your foot, so in your larger actions take care not to damage your own ruling faculty.
If we observe
this rule in every act, we shall undertake the act with more security.
39. The measure of possession is the body, just as the
foot is of the shoe. If then you uphold the needs of the body,
you will maintain the measure, but if you pass beyond the needs, you must then of
necessity be hurried as it were down a precipice. As also in the matter of the
shoe, if you go beyond the necessities of the foot, the shoe is gilded, then
of a purple color, then embroidered. There is no limit to that which has once
passed the true measure.
40. Women from the age of fourteen are called dominae, meaning
"Lady" or "Mistress." [The Latin word is derived from "power."] But seeing that
there is no true power they can obtain short of the power of lying with men, they begin to decorate themselves and to
place all their hopes in this. Men will find it worthwhile to take care that
women know that they are valued for nothing else than for being
decent and modest and discreet.
41. It is a mark of a mean capacity to spend much time on the things which
concern the body, such as much exercise, much eating, much drinking, much easing
of the body, much copulation. But these things should be done as subordinate
things. Let all your care be directed to the mind.
42. When people treat you ill or speak ill of you, remember that they do or say this because
they think it is their duty. It is not possible for them to follow that which seems right to you, but that which seems right to
themselves. Accordingly if others are wrong in their opinion, they are the pones
who are hurt, for they are the ones who have been deceived. If one supposes the
true conjunction to be false, it is not the conjunction which is hindered, but
the one who has been deceived about it. If you proceed then from these
observations,
you will be mild in temper to those who revile you. Say on each occasion, "It
seemed so to them."
43. Everything has two handles, the one by which it may be borne, the other
by which it may not. If your brother acts unjustly, do not lay hold of the act
by that handle wherein he acts unjustly, for this is the handle which cannot be
borne. Lay hold of the other, that he is your brother, that he was nurtured
with you, and you will lay hold of the thing by that handle by which it can be
borne.
44. These arguments do not cohere: "I am richer than you, therefore I am
better than you" and "I am more eloquent than you, therefore I am better than you." On the
contrary these do cohere: "I am richer than you, therefore my possessions are
greater than yours" and "I am more eloquent than you, therefore my speech is superior
to yours." But you are neither possession nor speech.
45. Does one bathe quickly? Then do not say that one bathes badly, only
that one bathes quickly. Does someone drink much wine? Then do not say that this
is done
badly, only that he drinks much. For before you shall have determined the
opinion, how do you know whether the person is acting wrong? Thus you will not
find yourself comprehending some appearances which are capable of being comprehended
while at the same time wrongly assenting to others.
46. On no occasion call yourself a philosopher, and do not speak much among
the uninstructed about philosophical dictums: rather, do that
which follows from them. For example, at a banquet do not say how one ought to
eat, but eat as you ought to eat. For remember that in this way Socrates also
altogether avoided ostentation. Persons used to come to Socrates and ask to be
recommended by him to philosophers, and he used to take them to philosophers, so
easily did he submit to being humble.
Accordingly if any conversation should
arise among uninstructed persons about any philosophical idea, generally be silent, for
there is great danger that you will immediately throw up what you have not
digested. And when someone shall say to you, that you know nothing, and you are
not vexed, then be sure that you have begun the work of philosophy. Even
sheep do not vomit up their grass and show to the shepherds how much they have
eaten; but when they have internally digested the pasture, they produce
externally wool and milk. Do you also show not your philosophical theorems to the
uninstructed, but show the acts which come from their digestion.
47. When at a small cost you are supplied with everything for the body, do
not be proud of this, nor, if you drink water, say on every occasion, I drink
water. But consider first how much more frugal the poor are than we, and how
much more enduring of labor. And if you ever wish to exercise yourself in labor
and endurance, do it for yourself, and not for others; do not embrace statues.
But if you are ever very thirsty, take a draught of cold water, and spit it out,
and tell no one.
48. The condition and characteristic of an uninstructed person is this:
that the uninstructed
never expects from themselves gain nor harm, but only from externals. In
contrast, the
condition and characteristic of a philosopher is that he expects all advantage
and all harm from himself. The signs of one who is making progress are
these: he censures no one, praises no one, blames no one, accuses no
one, says nothing about himself as if he were somebody or knew something. When impeded at all or hindered,
such a one blames himself. If someone praises him,
he ridicules the one who gives praise. If someone censures him, he makes no defense.
Such a person goes about like a weakling, being careful not to move any of the things
which are placed, before they are firmly fixed, removing all desire from
the self, transferring aversion to those things only of the things within our
power which are contrary to nature. One making progress employs a moderate movement toward
everything; whether considered foolish or ignorant, he cares not. In a word such
a peron watches himself as if he were an enemy and lying in ambush.
49. When someone is proud because he can understand and explain the writings of
[Greek Stoic philosopher] Chrysippus, say to yourself, "If Chrysippus had not written obscurely, this
fellow
would have had nothing to be proud of. But what is it that I wish? To understand
Nature and to follow it. I inquire therefore who is the interpreter of Nature, and when I
have heard that it is Chrysippus, I come to him. But I do not
understand what is written, and therefore I seek the interpreter. And so far
there is yet nothing to be proud of. But when I shall have found the
interpreter, the thing that remains is to apply the precepts. Applying the
precepts is the only thing to be proud of. But if I shall admire the exposition,
I am merely a grammarian, not a philosopher, except
in one thing, that I am explaining Chrysippus instead of Homer. Thus, when
anyone says to me, 'Read Chrysippus to me,' I rather blush, when I cannot show my
acts to be consistent with his words."
50. Whatever rules are proposed to you for the conduct of life abide
by them, as if they were laws, as if you would be guilty of impiety if you
transgressed any of them. And whatever anyone shall say about you, do not
attend to it, for this is no affair of yours.
How long will you defer thinking yourself worthy of the best things and not transgressing the distinctive reason? Have you accepted the theorems which it was your duty to agree to, and have you agreed to them? What teacher do you still expect to defer to in the correction of yourself? You are no longer a youth, but already an adult. If then you are negligent and slothful, and are continually making procrastination after procrastination, and proposal after proposal, and fixing day after day after which you will attend to yourself, you will not know that you are not making improvement, but you will continue ignorant both while you live and till you die.
Immediately, then, think it right to live as a full-grown person, and one who is
making proficiency, and let every thing which appears to you to be the best be
to you as a law which must not be transgressed. And if anything laborious, or
pleasant or glorious or inglorious be presented to you, remember that now is the
contest, now are the Olympic games, and they cannot be deferred, and that it
depends on one defeat and one giving way that progress is either lost or
maintained. Socrates in this way became perfect, in all things improving
himself, attending to nothing except to reason. But you, though you are not yet
Socrates, ought to live as one who wishes to be a Socrates.
51. The first and most necessary aspect of philosophy is the use of
precepts, for instance, that we must not lie. The second part is that
of demonstrations, for instance, how is it proved that we ought not to lie. The
third is that which is confirmatory of these two and explanatory, for example,
how is this a demonstration? For what is demonstration, what is consequence,
what is contradiction, what is truth, what is falsehood? The third aspect
is necessary on account of the second, and the second on account of the first. But the most necessary and that on which we ought to rest is the first.
Yet we
do the contrary. We spend our time and all our earnestness on the third topic,
while we entirely neglect the first. Therefore we lie. Even while the demonstration that we ought not to lie we have ready to hand.
52. In every circumstance we should hold these three maxims ready to hand:
Lead me, O Zeus, and you O Destiny,
The way that I am bid by you to go.
To follow I am ready. If I choose not,
I make myself a wretch, and still must follow.
But whoever nobly yields to necessity,
We hold wise, and skilled in things divine.
And the third also: O Crito, if so it pleases the gods, so let it be;
Anytus and Meletus [prosecutor and accuser of Socrates]
are able indeed to kill me, but they cannot harm me.
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BIBLIOGRAPHICAL REFERENCES
Standard translations of the Enchiridion of Epictetus include Elizabeth Carter (1750), George Long (1888), Thomas Wentworth Higginson (1890) and P.E. Matheson (1916). For electronic texts, see Carter: http://classics.mit.edu/Epictetus/epicench.html; Long: http://www.ptypes.com/enchiridion.html; Matheson: http://www.sacred-texts.com/cla/dep/dep102.htm; and Higginson: http://www.perseus.tufts.edu/hopper/text?doc=Perseus%3Atext%3A1999.01.0237%3Atext%3Denc